AW called this evening. She is getting out of detox tomorow. Wanted to know if she can come home of if she needs to find another place to live. I told her I didn't know yet, would have to sleep on it tonight. Well as we talked I her shift and deflect blame game was starting again. I didn't tell her but she just made up my mind for me. Tomorow I am going to just tell her that I have too many deep seated resentments. They affect how I look at anything she says or does. I think it's best if we seperate for a while. I had hoped that this episode would be her rock bottom but I am now convinced that it has not affected her a bit. She is going to do what she wants to and I am just just going to have to live with that fact. However I don't have to live with her.