I'm not particularly jealous of people who can moderate. But when cravings are up, I am jealous of people who don't crave alcohol.
You asked for advantages of abstinence/sobriety.
* It's poison, even in small quantities.
* I think we can grow stronger and more resilient through our struggles. I think any crisis is an opportunity for growth, and I think I grew a lot from it. I think I have a deeper appreciation for each conscious moment- than I would have had if I never struggled with alcohol. I don't really wish to be different than I am.