Originally Posted by
CSHNow 
Hi Verbena, I am sort of new here and haven't taken the time to figure out how to use the "Quote" function yet, so apologies, anyway I can't quite get my hear around your example copied below:
For example: I bring my husband lunch in bed most days even though he's perfectly willing to make his own (unhealthy) lunch. I want him fed and sleepy so I have my afternoons to work uninterrupted.
Is he incapacited and bedridden ? Just curious why he gets food in bed at lunchtime????
My AH keep odd hours. He is an early riser and a morning drinker. He get's up somewhere around 3 AM gets coffee and goes out to his little office/workshop for a few hours. Starts drinking around 6AM. He comes in sometime between 11:30 and 1PM. He's sloshed and hungry. Fill his tummy and he's out for two or more hours. I can work without interruption.