Old 01-08-2011, 05:50 AM
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Maverick28
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Can you live non-codependently, with an alcoholic?

Hi, newbie here

I've been reading some topics over the last few weeks, and doing some googling ... the feeling I get, is that generally speaking, anyone living with an alcoholic is codependent, am I right in thinking that's the general gist of things?

If so, it's news to me I've never considered myself codependent with my husband, but am wondering if I am and seeing how/if it can apply to my situation.

It's hard too, because I don't think I'm an enabler ... but is a definition of an enabler someone doing something as basic as just living with an addict?
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