I paid a lot for my divorce, both in lawyer fees and alimony. I look at it as anti-vomit money. As in, I never, EVER, have to listen to that ever again. And that is worth a lot. I have a peaceful, serene home. There is never extra money missing from the checking account. There isn't that worry of "what will he want now."
Mine didn't get half of everything, but he wanted it. Since the economy is so crappy, I got both houses (both upside down). We had more debt than assets, and I have the economy to thank for that. I didn't want both houses, but I can afford the mortgages. He got his car, his loans and his alimony, and I'd like him to get around to taking the rest of his stuff. (Long story.)
So anyway, now there is just me, my critters, my homestead, and quiet. Unless I change it.
And I love it.