Ugh. I'd be FURIOUS if my husband treated me that way. But, that's usually my first reaction anyway.
I am checking into Alanon meetings
when i first read this, I thought you were checking into an al-anon treatment center. Like actually checking in somewhere.
What a great thing that would be! We should have treatment centers for us too! Three hot meals, a warm place to stay while someone ELSE takes **** from the alcoholic. And when we come out, we'll be SUPERHERO's with super powers like
automatic deflection of blame placing with phrases like, "Sorry that's your choice not mine!"
And many others. Ah, what a sweet dream. I'd check in for a good long time..