Originally Posted by
MamaDuck101 
Let me rephrase our house situation... We are not buying the house, it's a gift from his parents, so it's actually up to them to back out of it, but that is why I'm so nonchalant about just not moving in with him at all because I have nothing going into it except myself of course.
So whose house is it really? Your in-law's house that you get to live in? Your husband's house? Or will the house belong to "both" of you legally?
Are your in-laws giving you a beautiful gift or attempting to control your life? And, your child's life.
You need to be thinking about you and your child first. Clearly, your AH can't do that.