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Old 01-05-2011, 11:04 AM
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newlywed41
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Columbus, OH
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Thanks again for the continued support and advice.

My husband and I are still not really speaking. I told him I will not talk to him, because his words mean nothing. I was not going to let him get away with it this time. I am a very strong/independent person, and I love him with all my heart, I also don't want to continue to live this kind of life.

I wrote him a letter this morning and sent it to him. I poured my heart out, and he called and asked if we could talk later. I told him I had nothing more to say to him, I don't want apologies and words, I want action and a plan.

He said if I didn't like what he had to say, and we argued, than he would help me pack bags if that is what I really want. It's not what I want at all, I want him to get help, but he has to want to. I told him therapy is no use if he doesn't believe this is a problem. Though I don't want to end things, I also know I don't want to live like this anymore.
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