Welcome back Kittycat!!!!
Sorry about your Mom...I lost my Dad three years ago Feb. and it is still so hard. A big HUG for you((((((Kittycat)))))).I have yet to experience my husband being sober long enough to really see the change. Mine is such a royal pain that I have no idea how good or bad it would be.Take care and hope to see you around more!
Hugs and Prayers,
matters