Are you prepared to take over the lives of two grown adults? Are you prepared for when those grown adults do not cooperate with your plan for how their lives should be run? Hi Bella, I am an adult child of an alcoholic and have done what it seems you are planning to do several times and with several people. It has always backfired on me and made my life chaotic and unmanageable. I'm not sure how much my efforts ever helped anyone. I sincerely suggest you check out a few AlAnon meetings in your area. Please think long and hard before deciding to rule someone else's life, whether you think the life they are living is "right" or "good" or not.
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