crystal226

Reading this was such an eye opener. I couldn't believe how each excuse on this list mirrored everything AH had said to me. And the "you knew who I was..." argument...heard that one a hundred times. What you knew then and what you know now are two different things. I think this argument is like saying I have no choice but to do the same thing I have always done and therefore by changing yourself you are the one holding all the power and it isn't fair. What my AH and other A's refuse to see it that they have choices too; he can adapt or stay the same and he can choose his path. Guess what, so can you if you want to and he is just going to have to live with that.