Originally Posted by
Jazzman 
I understand how liberating this feels. But I would ask you, why should you and your children leave due to her poor choices?
I didn't leave, I asked her to. The kids are grown and somewhat out on their own. Except during school breaks.
She went to sleep on the couch last night. This morning when I got up she was gone. What scares me is if she gets in a wreck and kills someone. My name is on the car title.