Thanks again for all your wonderful help.
Keeinon- I went to a couple of alanon meetings and all they did was take turns reading a paragraph out loud from the book. It didn't seem like there was any help, guidance, direction. Just reading.
Maybe others are different.
I, and I am sure all parents of addicts, keep thinking there must have been something I could have done. After spending so much time on rehab (and $$) I have found that the success rates for rehab are horrible. Especially for opiates/heroin because it takes so long for the brain to recover.
So sad for all the upcoming young people who are going to go through this torture with their addictions. Oxy is the drug of choice in high school.