Droped The Bomb on Her Today
It's been about 6 weeks since I was last on here. AW stayed sober for a while. Christmas day she got into a stupid fight with one of our daughters over wedding plans. When I refused to join in she turned silent on me and started drinking. Thankfully the liquor store was closed yesterday and today so she can't buy any more Vodka so she is somewhat sobered up, but still a mess. This morning I cornered her and said it was time to start talking. She refused several times. So I droped the bomb. Told her I was finished and she needed to find a new place to live. Before she left I told her again that I love her and care about her well being. I can't stop her from destroying herself but I can stop her from destroying the rest of the family. Right now she is at her mothers (who sides with me). The divorce is going to be very expensive and painful but it's gotten to where living with a drunk is more painful.