Originally Posted by
HusbandwAW 
Should I move out for a month to see what happens? To give her a glimpse of life without me? Me or the booze, choose?
AJ
If this is something you're considering or have considered, then maybe you could try thinking about different reasons for doing it.
Asking her to choose between you and the booze probably won't work, she'll maybe say she chooses you, but she'll keep the booze hidden (for now) anyway.
If you were going to move out for a while you could try seeing how life treated YOU, how good it was for YOU, and seeing how different YOU felt about things from a distance, or how much better you slept!
I know you love her and you want to help her, but everyone else here loves someone too who would be stone cold sober and happy if loving them could make it that way.