Hit the nail on the head. We both know she is depressed, although it has improved for short periods of time. We trained and completed a triathlon together last fall and she was doing really well, until just after the race. I do look at this like an illness, told my brother-in-law the exact same thing last night. I don't want to leave her, and I know the road to recovery won't be easy. I have never feared a good challenge. The things she has tried in the past to recover have not lasted. Need a new strategy. My wife has discussed trying anti-depressants, any thoughts on that? She is concerned about becoming addicted to the pills though...