Dear Lostfamily
Just wanted to add that I have you in my thoughts and prayers. This addiction to a chemical substance is such a thief.
My STBXAH has relapsed now for seven years after a period of sobriety of seven years. Now he is in rehab nr 16 -yearlong court ordered by his family. I still am scared of raising my children alone- but I have done it now alone for seven years a day at a time!
Had I left seven years ago the children would have been better off. I did them no favour especially by allowing myself to become so sick with worry over him when his only interest was his alcohol consumption!
Concentrate on YOU. You are the important one here. I am saying it again as you can never hear it enough!!!! What is good for you is good for your children and for your wife - if she WANTS sobriety.
Hugs