Originally Posted by
LucyA 
It helps me to read them from time to time, I find theres always a different perspective or different problem or even things I'd never even thought of.
I use them to help me help Joe, I can't do it all by myself.
Didn't mean to imply using them wouldn't be helpful. In fact, I have read them to help myself cope with some issues I carry from my childhood. I was just saying more that I don't need them to back my decision...I get it. Never thought of using them to help my kids as well though, good idea. Thanks.