I think the most annoying part of everything was his obsessiveness to concentrate on my issues. I noticed he would focus on other people and then eventually it seemed like he was very focused on me instead of his own issues. And his "list" that he created of me are issues that aren't the real issues anyway. It was a list of crap that he wanted me to change because maybe it inconvenienced him, or a personality defect or his perception of one anyway. Never ever concentrating on himself and his own inventory.