Welcome to the SR family!
Glad you found us,but sorry about the reason you came looking.
Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.
Some of our stories are posted in the permanent (sticky) posts at the top of the page. I am always finding wisdom from someone else's experience in those posts.
Here is one of my favorites. It contains steps that helped some of us:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html