ok...this is what i get....
he is in detox rehab...he calls...ALOT...time to set boundaries....
you are not responsible for his ACTIONS...he needs to get well
AND
so do you....so it time for AL ANON and who ever wants to go with you great...otherwise, use this time for YOU and dont get hung up about the others and their own recovery...we all have our own issues...you do need to think what will happen when he gets out..ie coming back into the home....again your boundaries..what you say, GOES...do what you think is right by YOU...feel confident in your decision(s) and for you future with him? you dont have to do anything rash....no need to hurry...it will all come to you in time....you have the tools today but tomorrow you may get something else to add to help....FIRST THINGS FIRST dont focus to much on him...only on YOU