I'm confused. Did this guy, the counselor, call you and leave that message? What's up with that?? I've never known a counselor to get involved in the romantic relationships of their patients. That's just unfathomable to me.
In any case, it sounds to me like "G" is doing his best to control you from where he is. He wants you to constantly think about him and his situation and wants to make you feel like you are an integral part of his rehabilitation. Of course, nothing is further from the truth.