I was going to post that when XAH went into in-patient treatment, he didn't have time to call, that he didn't have much free time, but I just realized who he was probably calling in his free time.....
Will move on to: XAH's attitude was "every one keeps telling me I was sick, but I don't see it." He didn't get a whole lot out of the treatment other than medical attention while he detoxed. I'm kind of getting the same vibe here.... I agree with SKW that the family sessions may be very helpful for you regardless of his state of mind towards treatment.