Originally Posted by
Hailee 
I am beginning to understand the whole deflection pice of his anger, and it makes complete sense. He has always said that I think that "I am better than him" and many different remarks like that.
I am not an angel by any stretch of the imagination but I have no drug/alcohol history and would never even look at another man. I guess he is just incapable of really loving back. First love is the alcohol, right?
25 cents says,
He thinks you are better than him and he isn't willing to face it; it's easier to tell himself that
you think that.
My aexh was (and for all I know, is) addicted to porn as well. I could count the number of times he accepted responsibility for the damage the porn did to our marriage on my fingers, and have some left over. Hugs-- it has nothing to do with you.
