P.s. I also need to point out that "being good" is a term we use with children. When used to refer to our spouses or significant others, something is very, very wrong. I know when I used to use it referring to my wife, I was doing so because I didn't see her as my equal. I saw her as simply another child I had to take care of-- I regret that now. It made things worse.
Yes, Rhode this is odd. A man I knew casually said to me "thats a good girl".
I said, "I am not a girl, I am a grown woman with children."
Being good is for Santa Clause. Not to describe your grown wife.
Beth