You should definitely consider going to the family counseling over the weekend (if you can) -- you'll get a lot of support from the other family members and counselors and you'lll learn good stuff, too. I came away with a fist-full of business cards -- everyone from counselors to the Director himself who said, "Call anytime." And I did end up calling more than once! If you don't want to be 'alone' with him, there shouldn't be a problem working around that!