He has left on his own. That is good news for now, until he tries to come back-which is inevitable. Thanks to the wonderful people on this site, I have the tools now to better deal with that when it happens. I was relieved that he did go on his own. The last thing I wanted was any more drama, especially for my daughters. For now I am just enjoying the calm, and wondering how long it will last. I will keep you all posted and thank you again so much. Just being able to get this all out there, and have people understand and offer encouragement and advice has made all the difference for me! I hope everyone has a safe and peaceful New Year.......Hugs to you all!
M