Originally Posted by
RollTide 
Maybe get Mom to take the kids out for pizza while the police remove him and you go to your AlAnon meeting.
My meeting is tonight also. I hope you get as much from AlAnon as I have.
This is an excellent idea. The kids are out with grandma and you can go grab yourself some support after he is gone.
You deserve your hard earned home. A haven for you and your kids. No one has to give their house over to anyone else. It is yours. Your safe place. He has no right to take that from you, you don't have to give it to him, and the fact that he uses the kids as a manipulation tool makes me so mad on their behalf. He doesn't deserve their curb much less their house if he is willing to use them up like that.