I just go 'War and Peace' and be done with it. LOL
I am a recovering alcoholic.
I am usually ... deliberately not present when any drinking begins.
But I've been around it.
It makes me uncomfortable as well.
Not necessarily their behavior
(although sometimes it is)
but I don't like the 'smell stimulus'.
I don't see anything wrong with being uncomfortable around drunks.
I think that might be close to the mythological state called 'normal'.