Whoops...didn't think I was being asked about my own possible co-dependency recovery. I took the quiz and answered zero questions with a yes.
I'm sad when I think of this enormously talented, funny, kind (when not drinking) person destroying himself. But I don't feel personally connected to the situation anymore; it's as if I'm reading about some sad but faraway disaster in the newspaper.
Live is right.....it's none of my business anymore.
Thanks, everybody!--Cala