I have noticed I am being a better mother now without AH around, more focused on my son, but not suffocating. I have read great books by Michael Gurian about the Male brain, raising boys to exceptional men, etc which are also great books if anyone is interested. Thanks everyone, I did stop and this morning we had a great time playing games on his new ipod touch, now I want one!!! Anyways, as always, thanks so much everyone, great advice, thoughts and insights, you are all my angels!