Originally Posted by
wicked 
I was writing a response to your last post phlegmatic,
but I think sailorjohn says it best. abstinence.
And I was manipulated by my ex's mother, so maybe don't talk to her either.
Avoid everyone who wants you two back together, cause it is easier for them when you are caretaking.
Beth
sorry for the repeat phlegmatic.
Thanks--I am trying to keep this in mind because I know they would all rather I take care of him than them. But I did that for 11 years! Their turn. He wasn't an alcoholic when he was a kid and teenager living with them.