Welcome to SR!!!
When I first got here, I read and read through a lot of posts. Just realizing that I wasn't the only one in the world with my dysfunctional relationships (and my own addiction...in recovery from both the codependency and addiction) was a huge relief.
This IS a hard time of year, for a lot of us, but SR has gotten me through every tough time in my life.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy