hi vicky-
any chance you could take a time-out at your parents for a week or so? i found when i got out of the toxic environment of my alcoholic, my head cleared and i could begin to forumlate a plan for how i was going to proceed.
mine was the same as far as interupting my sleeping. and then i just got more and more exhausted.
i know it's the holidays, but he could always come over to your parents house for christmas dinner...and then LEAVE and you can have a good night of sleep!
naive