Hi and welcome to the SR family!
We are glad you found us.
We are here to support you and encourage you.
We understand living with and loving an addicted person.
Some of our stories are in the permanent (sticky) posts at the top of the page. I am always finding wisdom, shared by other members, in those posts.
This is one of my favorites and contains steps that have helped me:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html