gee...funny thing is, i see it as the signs of grieving too....everyone MOVES ON to their own lives....I too, wonder why i dont ever see the FIL & MIL(after their son, my husband)THIS is not for me, but their dead sons KIDS....but now, 9 years coming...i am so glad they dont come around...its so much PEACE and QUIET...maybe take it as a blessing...they now get to face the true reality of his alcoholism ways...YOU got it...now they need to too...
PEACE for you and AL ANON also...