Cryanoak, thank you for your words of encouragement and words of truth! It sounds like you have stayed in your relationship with your wife?? If that is the case, how have you come to make that work? When I made my marriage vows, I intended to keep them. I hate the thought of divorce and having my kids go thru the emotional ride of that and shuffling back and forth between us. Would love to hear more on how you live within your relationship with your wife. Thank you!!