Boundaries are my toughest challenge. A "co-dependendent" and "giver" by nature - won "miss congeniality" when I was young - was a good thing then!
My AH was in recovery but has been drinking a couple times a week since Thanksgiving ... I get pissed off, emotional, etc. then try to relax and remember the thre C's. Nothing I can do to change him or his actions ...
Be strong - we support you!