As for the excuse.....he has a job interview (2nd interview, god knows how) tomorrow. If he can't rest, shower, etc., how will he ever get this job and get out of my hair? Ridiculous, I know. My wildest wish is that he can get this and keep it long enough to get himself a place to live. Keep that place? Probably not, but then I wouldn't be kicking him out, his landlord would. I have a real problem with guilt and show compassion to a fault. Ugg.