Originally Posted by
Thumper 
As long as his parents pay his bills and you pay for his entertainment he'll get a job around the same time hell freezes over.
I agree 100%. No man with any self-respect sponges off of his family and his girlfriend.
You can't control whether he ever gets a job or not, but you sure can control where your money goes.
I don't shell out money to anyone, including my 22 year old daughter. She's currently jobless by choice. When the well runs dry on her trust fund money, then maybe she will be motivated to look.
I'd rather be alone and have the money to take care of myself then to shell out money to a man (who isn't working) just for the sake of companionship.