OMG BetterWorld--I think we must have been married to the same man. I live in Wisconsin too so maybe we were!
I've been called the same thing. . .and well, as I have posted before his favorite is to call me "EVIL" (OK if anyone knows who the Church Lady is from SNL just say evil the same way the Church Lady said Satan and you got it).
Keep your head up ResilientFather and I hope the holidays are minus the drama.