you are a very brave and strong teenager, both you and your sister.
i am sorry you have to take her keys and cash, that should not be your responsibility.
yes, if you can get any help from social services, alateen, or alanon, please do it.
it is not a betrayal to your mother, it is about saving your life.
please get some help.
i grew up with an alcoholic father, i wish i had any clue about how to get help.
thank you for coming here, and keep posting.
there is hope and happiness in you and your sister's future.
Beth
Adult Child of an Alcoholic.