Thanks for the replies. I know what I'm doing is right however I know I face an uphill battle now. My wife is an incredible manipulator and has surrounded herself with plenty of people who believe I'm making everything up to make her look bad. The hardest thing I have ever done was taking a stand and getting the law involved. My fear has always been false accusations and lies from her. Right now I have no doubt in my mind that she is creating a case against me that I am the bad guy. I just hope it doesn't backfire. At this point I just want to make sure that I don't have to worry about our child when she is alone with her. I have a LONG road in front of me and yes I am looking into alanon.