Originally Posted by
goldengirl3 
At least the romantic part is so over on this that I don't have that temptation like I did in the past.
That's pretty much where I am. Although I do still have the guilt about the boys and have invited STBXAH's over for Christmas morning. I have the added whammy of Christmas day being his birthday. I've already heard the grief about that...his parents are going out of town for Christmas...he's going to be all alone. It does pull at my heart, but I'm ignoring it. Fake it till you make it, you know.