i know! i'll call her friend, pretend i care. <pats self on back> 
oh naive, that post of yours is priceless. Its very sad and so true. Wow.
But the best news is that I let go of trying to control him, which has brought me the greatest freedom ever.
transformy I had the chance to practice this today and yes it was the greatest freedom ever. No longer being surprised. Dettachment, taking a deep breath...
I wonder if the AA forum also has a codie translator?