Originally Posted by
suki44883 
Sorry to sound so harsh, but your post kind of upset me. I have a problem with control freaks as I was once married to one.
Well, that does sound pretty harsh. Sounds like control triggers you.
I'd be willing to bet that under "normal" circumstances Rhode wouldn't even consider such measures. After all, he is only "considering" them, he hasn't acted on them.
I'd be willing to bet many of us married to alcoholics have "at least" considered insane ways to cope with, well....the insanity. I know I have.
I'm triggered when some poor
guy comes on here and is judged harshly and even labeled a control freak, for responding poorly to living with insanity, and "considering" what many of both genders on here have done under similar circumstances.
I like you Suki, I've just seen men who really, really needed this forum never post again from getting their ba!!s busted right out of the chute.
I probably should learn not to respond to posts that trigger me!
MOST of the time I don't. Progress not perfection.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote