Hi there
I"m glad you're here.
Now here is where I’d like your comments – obviously, my demands would be controlling and unreasonable under normal circumstances. But given the current situation – would I be out of line taking control of her life? Would it likely to succed?
This is great, you're asking all the right questions. I'm guessing you don't know a lot about alcoholism, or codependency, but there are "stickies" up at the top of the page when you first get here that are FULL of very very helpful information.
Amazing things can happen when we focus on ourselves and take care of what we actually have control over: ourselves and our children. I was obsessed with my husbands drinking when I came here, and now live a very full, happy life while he drinks. Not my business anymore, actually, other than how it affects my kids, and what a relief!
Welcome!