((((MyErnie)))) - way to go on the progress!! I just posted on that other thread, and I've been there. The more we detach, the better we get. It's really great to hear that he is now an ex. Yes, it hurts, but we move on and we find life is SOOO much better when we're not worried about where they are, what they're doing, who they're with, etc.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy