I'm not content far from it,although I think I have come to realise I won't change him.Although he is high functioning ,he is still moody ,difficult and verbally abusive,both drunk and sober.I guess I have just accepted things as they are out of a fear of change.We did split up for six months four years ago but I found it hard to manage on my own as I am disabled and our elder daughter who is autistic was in a mental hospital at the time suffering from depression.