Sometimes the qualities we think we admire in our dating partner can become resentments as we get to know them more intimate. I thought one of my DDH's "good" quality was the kindness he could show towards strangers. However, I have learned to resent and almost hate this quality of his. My DDH got addicted to a certain website and
even started emailing the other members. He developed close relationships with a couple female members from this website. He would spend a lot of his time corresponding
with these females. He was telling these females "family secrets" about me and his family. I accidentally found out, and he said he was just trying to help them. I bought it! Yet he has remained detached from me and our two sons.
However, now that I was writing this out......it feels like he has played me like a patsy!
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I, like everyone else, need to use these Self Esteem Quotes to express our greatness!
•Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life believing that it is stupid. ~Albert Einstein
•You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love & affection. ~Buddha
•Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves. ~Nathaniel Branden
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•Everybody is unique. Compare not yourself with anybody else lest you spoil God’s curriculum. ~Rabbi Israel ben Eliezer
•Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are. ~Malcolm S. Forbes
•You can’t build joy on a feeling of self-loathing. ~Ram Dass
•It's not your job to like me...it's MINE! ~Byron Katie
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•Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives. ~Louise L. Hay
•The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. ~Joseph Campbell
•Reflect on your present blessings, of which every man has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some. ~Charles Dickens
•Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
•Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. ~Albert Einstein
This is my personal opinion. Take what you like and leave the rest.
Love and Peace,
Phoenix